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Free printable calm-down cards for kids

Nine calming moves on picture cards, from a big slow breath and bubble breaths to a butterfly hug and slow motion, each with a one-line instruction your child can follow. Plus a “What can I do?” poster with all nine to choose from. For children aged 3 to 12, ready to print on A4 or US Letter paper.

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Calm-down cards: some of the cards and the What can I do? My calm-down choices page

What’s inside

  • 9 Calmlings, the calming tricks: Breatho (big slow breath), Bubblo (bubble breaths), Squeezle (squeeze and let go), Stompo (stomp it out), Stretchy (stretch tall), Flutterhug (butterfly hug), Spotto (spot five things), Feelio (name the feeling), Slowmo (slow motion)
  • The “What can I do?” poster: all nine moves as pictures with their one-line instructions, a star to colour in on favourites, and three short tips for grown-ups.
  • Card backs lined up for double-sided printing, as A4 and US Letter PDFs

Calmlings is our card game on phone, iPad and paper for children aged 3 to 12. Each Wobble card is a tricky moment, and each Calmling is a calming trick for facing it. Meet every card.

Want every move? See all the coping skills cards, sorted by type.

The nine calming moves in this pack

Each card has one move and a one-line instruction your child can follow. Here is what they say.

  • The Breatho (big slow breath) cardBreathoBig slow breathSmell the flower, blow out the candle.
  • The Bubblo (bubble breaths) cardBubbloBubble breathsBlow slow bubbles, big and round.
  • The Squeezle (squeeze and let go) cardSqueezleSqueeze and let goSqueeze, count to 3, then let it all go.
  • The Stompo (stomp it out) cardStompoStomp it outStomp, jump or push the wall to reset.
  • The Stretchy (stretch tall) cardStretchyStretch tallReach up to the sky, then touch your toes.
  • The Flutterhug (butterfly hug) cardFlutterhugButterfly hugCross your arms and tap, tap, tap slowly.
  • The Spotto (spot five things) cardSpottoSpot five thingsName 5 things you see and 4 you can hear.
  • The Feelio (name the feeling) cardFeelioName the feelingSay it out loud: "I feel worried."
  • The Slowmo (slow motion) cardSlowmoSlow motionMove super slowly, like a sleepy sloth.

How to use calm down cards

  • Practise on a calm day. Try one card together when nothing is wrong, so the move is familiar.
  • Offer two or three, not all nine. In a hard moment, fewer choices are easier.
  • Keep them where big feelings happen: on a ring, in a pocket, in a calm corner or in a calm down kit.
  • Let your child point instead of talk. A card can say it for them.
  • Choose with the poster. “What can I do?” shows all nine moves, with a star to colour in on favourites.

Putting together a box or bag? See how to make a calm down kit. Setting up a quiet spot? See how to set up a calm down corner.

Printing tips

  1. Print at 100% (actual size), double-sided, and flip on the long edge, so every card gets its Calmlings back.
  2. Page 1 is the card fronts and page 2 their backs. Page 3 (“What can I do? My calm-down choices”) starts a sheet of its own.
  3. No double-sided printing? Print page 1, put the sheet back in the tray, then print page 2.
  4. Cut along the short grey marks at the edges of the page. Thin card is sturdier than paper.

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Want more than nine?

Both card sets open in the Calmlings app on your phone and iPad, and come with the Printable Pack of A4 and US Letter PDFs to print at home. The Starter Set has 61 cards, with 28 Calmlings. The Complete Collection has all 1000 cards, with 53 Calmlings. See every calming move, or see every card in the Calmlings gallery.

Starter set

US$5

61 cards to begin with: Calmlings, Wobbles and Feelings Friends, plus the Tamed! seals.

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Every card

Complete collection

US$29.99

All 1000 cards. New Calmlings, Wobbles and Feelings Friends cards are added to the Complete Collection as we make them.

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Questions about calm down cards

Are the cards free?

Yes. Enter your email and the download opens straight away, with A4 and US Letter PDFs. We keep your email address to tell you about new free printables now and then, and delete it whenever you ask.

Can I print them for my class?

Yes. Print as many copies as your class needs. Page 1 is the card fronts and page 2 their backs, and the poster has a page of its own.

Are calm down cards the same as coping skills cards?

Yes, they are two names for the same idea: a picture card that shows one thing to try. See all the coping skills cards in the full deck.

Is this therapy?

No. Calmlings cards are educational tools, not therapy or medical advice. Every child is different, so use the cards in whatever way works, alongside the doctors, therapists and teachers who know them.

Calmlings cards are educational tools, not therapy or medical advice. Every child is different, so use the cards in whatever way works, alongside the doctors, therapists and teachers who know them.

Drag to turn the card all the way round. Double-tap to reset. On a phone, tilt your phone to tilt the card.